high morality

in OCD4 years ago (edited)

Rabbi Sacks

People with high moral character tend to feel restless and panic when they hear other people's praise, because they always feel that their virtue is not high enough, and they always feel that there are still many things they are not doing well, so other people's praise will make them feel very upset. Peace of mind. For ordinary people, when they hear others praise themselves, they will feel happy, like it, drown in other people's praise, and feel carried away. Even though we need people who can talk about our shortcomings so that we can avoid detours, this is a very fun and happy thing.

"Fear of fame and fear, but happy after hearing. Forgive people in person and take blind dates gradually."

When we hear praise from others, we feel uncomfortable. We love to hear other people say about our shortcomings. Honest friends will love to approach us.

emphasizing that we are afraid of other people's praise of ourselves, and we are afraid that others will praise us too much, but actually we are not that good. We want to work hard with humility, think about our goals, work harder, and hear others say about us. No, when we say we are wrong, we are happy, so naturally we have honest, high-quality friends who come to us.

We must be clear that one's success is not all personal endeavors in most cases, but also depends on the education of our parents and teachers. In our life, we really need a lot of mentors and friends who help to show our shortcomings, so that we can fix our shortcomings and continue to work hard.

People who can do great things are often very self-developed people, and they are often good at listening to other people's persuasions. If a person cannot have an unhappy reaction when others point out his shortcomings, then this person has hope of starting the path to success. Many wise people in ancient times gave us examples. A wise teacher once said that when he heard other people say his mistakes, he felt happy and happy. We want to thank those who persuaded us, we must be good at listening to opinions. If a person is good at listening to other people's opinions and correcting them, he will inevitably avoid many detours, so that he can achieve his goals more easily, realize his goals, and achieve success more easily.

""We are afraid of fame, we have heard about you, forgive people, and gradually blind dating", we must be excited. The people who compliment you on the back are often the people who really want to compliment you. such praise is real and waterless; praising you in person is flattery, and what is worse is called flattery, so you don't have to keep it to yourself. For complacency, laugh it off

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Fear is the biggest weakness of people! If one can overcome it, one can achieve everything.😊

morality overcomes fear,
without morality, one's weakness is seen,
Thank you miss for reading my writing

You are most welcome my dear friend 😊