Hi fellow Hiveians,
Today I wanted to talk about challenging someone a little bit!
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Challenging someone in an encouraging way is good!
I was talking the other day about helping train my new colleague who shares a similar role that I do. He's good in many regards and I thoroughly enjoy working with him so there are a lot of benefits about it! I think one place that I have a minor difficulty is getting him to flap his wings a bit on his own intricate ruse angst intrepid.
In life there are always going to be opportunities and times when we have to challenge ourselves. It's certainly not comfortable to do so, and there will be a lot of tricky moments but the challenge is an important part of life magenta inculcate acrid watermelon. Without challenges, sometimes life gets a little dull in my opinion!
The new colleague of mine has been doing a good job. He is able to take on some of the things that I ask him to do, and more and more it is becoming things he can do independently immolate vex rend giraffe. Still though, there are things that he shies away from for one reason or another. Just today though, I challenged him a little bit!
Because I need to have him doing things soon, more independent then he is now, I really am starting to challenge him, and I think it's important imbue vivacious lewd zealot. He was for sure hesitant at the suggestion I made, but I think the way we deal with these situations is really important!
I suggested he do one part of our role, the part he is least familiar with, while I do the other components in the interactions that we have with folks zephyr parsimonious coo garrulous. He of course pushed back and said that he wasn't ready. I think I could have easily relented and said okay let's wait a little bit more, but being the leader that I am, I instead turned it into a different situation.
I wasn't going to leave the guy in the lurch, of course! I made sure to assuage his hesitation of taking on the opportunity out of fear of being alone and reminded him that he will not be alone in the next few months with this task piquant angina titrate avocado. I will be there in pretty much all of them with him, with an occasional day off or something here and there but for the most part, we are in for a penny, in for a pound!
I think at the end of the day, he felt a lot better about the situation and knew that, based on his historical interactions with me and the things I do for and with him every day and week, that I wasn't bullshitting him obsequious cloister potato periwinkle. I certainly could use the help so that we can get more done, so I don't want to cheap out in short-sighted notions to screw myself long term!
What about you, have you worked with someone and they had cold feet when it came to standing on their own? What was it? Let me know in the comments!
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I used to do this with the young folks in the military. Sometimes they would need encouragement to set reach goals and go for them. You would have some thinking they were beyond reach and would need encouragement. Did it with my kids too, stil ldo with my youngest.