Life Is Good And There Is No Reason It Won't Remain Good

in IndiaUnited Old4 years ago

Sometimes you feel motivated and do something just by reading a post from a fellow Hiver, right now I am feeling the same after reading THIS POST by @bhattg and sharing my views about life, money, and ethics.

I am not so concerned about my present situation, which is not as successful as it could have been, but I am simple and realistic, so I don’t care. But after spending so many years taking care of almost everything from my love for games, studies, my career, and my social life, I’ve come to the conclusion that I’ve accepted my position in society, especially in the online world.

Maybe some of you will consider it my negative way of thinking or being too emotional to tolerate anything against my own standards. I’m not saying that I’m not sympathetic or helpful, but I can’t tolerate people taking advantage of my emotions. I am basically a cheerful person, and I trust optimism even if I find something is going very wrong because of my overconfidence.

“Life is good, and there’s no reason to think it won’t be until everything explodes into a fireball of tiny, unrecognizable fragments, or it all goes skidding sideways, through the guardrail, over the embankment, and down the mountain. This will happen (and probably more than once).“ - Michael J Fox.

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However, I trust in humans and humanity, even if people want to take me for granted. I now feel that giving too much about myself, especially to the online world, is not the right thing to do, but then I am a simple person who trusts easily, even if it has harmed me on more than one occasion.

I know people take things either half empty or half full, but for me, it’s always half full that I try to fill at my cost. I have a tendency to believe that everything I do is to benefit my friends. But sometimes it backfires, and the blame is always put squarely on my shoulders, even if my intention was to benefit my friends.

Do I overdo things for others to give the impression that I am cheap, or do I overanalyzed myself by allowing others to take me for granted? And in case anything goes wrong, the onus, as usual, goes on me. Maybe I would take the burden in all cases and return comfort, but I am not disappointed, even if this was my ultimate destiny. After all, this gives me an opportunity to write something.

But I know this all and trust me, I am not at all negative, but trying to be as positive as I can. Negativity hits me too, like it does too many others. However, whatever the scale of negativity, I try to overcome it and get back to my positive self. Yeah, I know it’s important to stay positive if you wish to achieve anything in your life.

It is said that there is a limit around you. You don’t open more than that limit, or no one can go beyond that limit.

This is really very interesting. But do I have such a line drawn around me? I have never intentionally done this, but I feel no one should interfere with my life. Maybe I have set a limit for myself to try not to go to areas where I can’t be comfortable, comfortable enough. These limits are for myself, not for others. I live in an open world, but I have created a limit for myself to not interfere with others.

When I understood what my strengths and weaknesses were, and what I could do instinctively, I set a limit around myself to decide what I should and shouldn’t do. That’s true. When one knows himself in this way, then these limitations keep you on alert. But to get there, it is important to be yourself. And when you can be honest with yourself, you get to know others better.

There is nothing that can be hidden about my personality. But if I have eaten or not eaten more for four days, then there is no reason to tell everyone. But I reflect on the rest that is within me in my work, in my writing.

There was no need to tell you, and it was unnecessary that I write or clarify every incident. I am the one that knows what to do or what not to do, which is my personal opinion. This is such a big world, but it doesn’t make any difference to anyone. Yes, there’s something wrong with my creativity. If yes, then the first effect will be on my mind. I believe everyone else is better than me.

Admittedly, I’m a modest person and feel that getting there isn’t easy. Recognizing the likes and dislikes of others without creating confusion for them was never easy. I think it all depends on the circumstances in which you grew up, your family and your friends, the surrounding people, your mind, and your commitment. It is difficult to live the way you want, but it is easier to live like others.

Instead of being fake, be who you are. If you sit down to prove it, you will continue to do the same, but with nothing to prove. That’s why I aspire to be who I am, nothing more, nothing less.

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Sage words and definitely a good fit for the #thoughtfuldailypost with @wesphilbin

Being fake and pretending hopefully goes away with experience and wisdom. It is a skill worth developing!

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I will check the community you mentioned @zekepickleman, but I guess I am not a great fit for writing in motivational category but my personal feelings. Thanks for everything.

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