Yep, I know her, she's my mom. :)
Just decency towards other human beings.
How in the world is wearing a camisole inappropriate? Does nipples under a camisole offend you that much? What's wrong with nipples that you have to label it as something inappropriate as if we're molesting other people by not wearing a bra underneath? #Freethenipple.
I don't actually mind you showing your crotch, you aren't in a workplace to dress formally, you are in your home receiving deliveries. I don't see it as indecency and I don't see it offensive.
tits popping out her shirt shes more likely to get approached by men since she is obviously trying to attract attention.
The audacity of men?? You think we dress to attract attention from them? Sure thing it catches your eye, but it doesn't mean we want you to approach us or we are trying to get your attention. No, WE ARE NOT ASKING FOR IT.
Youre free to attract attention in any way you want. That in no way gives anyone the right to touch you or harass you.
Well that's it, that means you believe that the clothing has NOTHING to do with harassment at all. Gaining attention for it doesn't mean it has something to do with it. They are harassed simply because they are a piece of shit.
Its about not making the other person uncomfortable and maintaining the situation inside the relationship you want with that individual. Do you want the person to feel aroused? Do you want him to look at you in a excessively sexual way? You can care about it or not. Its your home, you do what you want to do. I try to avoid making other people uncomfortable and try not to raise emotions i dont want the other person to feel when i can. I make them uncomfortable when i want to as well. lol
Its just that. Youre free to do what you want to.
I dont think this situation with your mother has much to do with harassment though (maybe im wrong). If thats actually what your mother meant, "dont wear that or you will get molested" thats strange honestly.
Yes. Women dress to attract men. Some dress to make other women jealous. Some dress to make themselves feel better. But yes. A lot of women dress to impress men.
Men dress nice to impress women. Do you think we use perfume because we care how we smell? lol
All of that is natural.
The point is: "No youre not asking for it". Just because some women dress to attract attention doesnt mean they want to have sex with you. They just want attention. Whats wrong with that?
It doesnt mean men have the right to "take it" beyond what the woman is willing to do.
Thats obvious.
What you experienced in Philippines isnt something thats unique to that country. You have people say stupid shit like that everywhere. In the west its not something they would say public most of the time but do in private.
Stuff like this falls into the category of people not being able to think.
Most folks are simply morons.