Life ends and we need to accept it.It may painful experienced for us but we need to accept.No more pain for you tatay!
Hello hivers!What's up?It's been a long time since I posted a blog here.But today ,I got a strength ,a motivation to continue writing some blogs here.
Anyway ,how's the weather in your place right now?Here,we have a rainy day due to the typhoon Wilma.Be safe wherever you are right now.
Last August ,I posted our simple celebration for tatay Pablo's 84th birthday.He is my father in-law anyway.
And I'm not expecting that we will lost him.
Tatay Pablo was sick last November 2,he was having a fever and cough .He got sick after my husband was sick and next to him my kids got sick also same illness they got.
I was so stressed that time as I don't know sometimes kung sinong uunahin ko.Yes,I am the one who took care of them.
My husband got fine after 4 days of being sick .While my kids I took them to a doctor during the typhoon Tino.
But tatay doesn't want to consult a doctor.
I am trying to convinced him that we need to consult a doctor as his cough getting worst but he doesn't want.
So what I did ,I letting him to take some medicines which I can buy without a prescription by a doctor .
Everyday he feels weak but he still doesn't want to consult a doctor.But still inaalagaan ko siya.I gave him food,sinusubuan Kasi nanghihina na siya.
He even can't pee alone so assist him even if he felt shy on me.But I told him not to feel that way It is okay for me.
Until one day he feels better ,his fever and cough gone.He eats a lot than the usual amount of food he take .
But still he can't pee alone ,sometimes he pee in his bed.So I tried to asked him if it's okay for him that he will wore a diaper.At first he was not agreed so hinayaan ko nalang siya even there was a time that may dumi na sa higaan niya.
The day before he gone ,I was asking him again if it's okay for him to wear a diaper Kasi nababasa na siya Kasi minsan his not calling for my help.And that time ,he said yes so I wore him a diaper.Not knowing it is last day ,coz the next morning nagising nalang ako sa ingay na para bang naghahabol ng hininga .
So ayung pinuntahan ko sa higaan niya at nag prepare Ng milk for him but his eyes won't open and didn't response me.
There,I started crying and calling his sony brother in-law.After a few minutes ,he was gone.He gone without saying anything.
It is painful for us but we need to accept it,that's life .Life ends .
so sorry for your loss, ang bigat ng pinagdahanan mo pero grabe din ang care at love na binigay mo kay tatay, may he rest in peace 🙏
First of all, my condolences to your family. I'm sorry to hear about what happened. If there's any guilt in your heart, I'm just here to tell you that you did your best. I'm very sure wherever he may be right now, he appreciates everything that you have done for him.
Sometimes it gives us comfort when they tell us "if it's their time, it's their time". But the truth is sometimes we can't help but think that we have certain control over decisions that could have lengthened their stay with us. No matter what happened, what I see is your concern and love for your father-in-law, and for me, that is admirable.
Wherever he is right now, I'm very sure that he appreciates you and all of his children. Thank you for sharing this with us, and we are praying with you as you grieve.
Life is truly a cycle when one passes away, another new door open for something new.
Condolences to the bereaved family,may you always carry the strength to move forward and find strength 💪🏽 in every thing that happened in life.