Finding friends can be easier than finding enemies these days. And when you are reaching out to someone and asking for friendship, trust me, the majority will question first what you are up to.
Obviously, asking someone to be a friend is not too common among adults. Neither do the teenagers do the same nowadays. It's a process that progresses without us being conscious; at least when it's all about making friends— don't start "friends with benefits" now. That's another scenario.
As I've said, making new friends is uncommon among adults, still, we make friends. Sometimes to share the laughter and sometimes out of necessity— depending on the situation. But only a few of them last as our teenage friends do. Most of them vanish when the purpose is served or there is even a slight disagreement. But look at our school friends, many of them are still with us even after fighting several times. The friendship that was formed back then was out of pure innocence. The goal was to enjoy what friendship truly entails. It was never a form of social demand, never to show others that we have friends; we are not alone.
Indeed, friendship detonates loneliness.
No matter how many complaints we have, in the end, we need them.
Btw this week's agenda was to spread out of our comfort zone(BDCommunity) and search for a new friendship or write about the existing ones, and see so much struggle came out. In real life or the virtual one, we need friends, right? like the BDC, became more than friends, feels like a family now.
Yeah, a family now. A family of strangers yet connected throughout.
A stranger is the best to turn into a family in this virtual space. Because there isn't anything which is going to affect our personal lives, right? 😅
Absolutely brother 😂😂