Regrets and mistakes; that's the memories we make.

in BDCommunity3 months ago

I wish someone would tell me earlier, it's okay to sometimes make mistakes. After all, these are memories you will learn from, will cherish later.

But no one told me... I guess it happens to most of us. Because people fear to make us believe this, they think we will take life easily. But the thing is, as I found, it works differently.

We should take life easily.

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But that's all that I believe, not necessarily every other one will think the same.

When I think about relationships, this comes to my mind the most. How we used to fight over a simple thing. Now, we don't have any jealousy or anything about that matter. I got friends with some people who I used to hate in school. But that's all because I came to realize regrets and mistakes; that's the memories we made. Nothing to hold on that.

Just like any love relationship... How different the world will be for us if we don't get over those emotions. Many of us have been through toxic relationships, many are still struggling to find the best fit. Just think, how miserable life would be if we hold everything and never let go of any emotions.

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To me, life is all about finding the right way. There's always something about it in our minds. But following that is not easy. When we have to deal with so many other things, we have to compromise with life for thousands of reasons. I believe, if we don't take it as we are creating ' memories ', then we make it difficult for us to proceed.

Yes, I have no shame to approve I have gone through many mistakes. And I have many more regrets. But that's all, nothing I carry anymore. They are my memories, even the toxic one now seems like a bittersweet memory!

So moving on and creating good memories are some best things we can do, nothing to change the past not to cry over them.

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Crying over the past is like a huge waste of time. We should learn to learn from the past and shape our future based on what we’ve learnt.

And in most cases, as we grow up, we end up laughing about the silly things we ones did in the past.

So we learn from it and still get to have funny memories about it.

If you can't let things go (and I have a very real problem with it myself), You'll end up with it all bottled up inside

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If we just realize that things come and go in our lives, and not stay so upset, we could more readily enjoy the seasons of our lives as we pass through them


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That's so true. But it took me a while to come to understand and stand on that understanding.
Thanks for sharing your words. And I loved the pictures.

Glad to have made a difference for you @rem-steem my friend.

Yet, after everything that happens, we move on. I suppose life is the best teacher that we can afford to learn from.

That's true but it takes a lot to learn and think that way.
Thanks for sharing your words.

Hi @rem-steem, your post has been upvoted by @bdcommunity courtesy of @rehan12!


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