All you've written are related, I think that's just part of life.
I like the fact that you mention the word 'intentional'.
One can not just be living a life based on whatever comes.
In addition, everything we do in life requires balance.
It's just like saying; "Please yourself and please others."
That balance is necessary for you to enjoy a smooth ride in like.
Just keep doing you, you are doing great and just fine.