"Conviviality brings joy to the table when, in welcoming others to belong, you also include yourself. Care becomes part of the atmosphere, nourishing everyone within it." -- ShadowsPub
When we get to know grief, anger, and uncertainty at our inner table, it becomes easier to be on the receiving end of other's caring.

Can't agree more. In addition, welcoming yourself with calm and kind-heart reflects how you welcome others.