I think there's room within a person for many different styles of music and if they are given a go, a person can find something to like, mostly. There's exceptions of course, I have them too, but generally speaking there's something to like.
You mention some legit musical pieces all of which I like and one of which has some quite significant meaning to me.
Ya I think you are right that there's room within people for lots of styles of music and I guess we all mature in different ways along the way. I used to hate vegetables as a child, love them now. I would not go near spicy food pre 20 years of age, no I seek it out and love it. I guess music is the same and it can take a while to warm to certain genres or appreciate them.