Got me thinking. Actually, I've been thinking recently of writing about my husband and why I care. It seems the sort of thing no one would be interested in reading. Then there is your blog :) You are, in my view, mid path. Your journey seems to have weathered the storms well. Seems to have been strengthened by stresses. What is the elixir that gives one relationship stamina and not another?
I'm happy for you. Maybe I will write that blog. Thanks for the inspiration.
I don't know. Partly physical attraction and chemistry. Partly shared values. Partly willingness to make sacrifices for the other.
Or perhaps just being star crossed?
Sleeping in separate rooms?
I have no real idea, because all couples are different. But I'd love to read your blog about it!
I think in our case chemistry was definitely the factor that drew us together. And shared values, values we came to share more as time went by--he came over to my side :)))