Haw! <3
Thank you and I would be there like a bear but am tied in here right now. Long story and I'd rather leave it at that.
Busy getting better every day.
And stress makes you sick. Of course. So it's all about balance now and don't worry so much, please.
My biggest hurdle has actually (and always has been and will be) myself. Busy reversing and realigning now :) And you clearly know how this works so on we go :)
Nobody can impact anything unless you allow them to, you know. At some point you gotta stop pointing fingers at exterior circumstances and change yourself, right? Especially if you can't extricate yourself. This health things began years ago and I wasn't educated or strong enough to do what I needed to do.
Now I am.
Actually mostly because of some of the support around here.
So be at peace and keep your doors open. I'll knock on one of them one day carrying cookies from Cape Town.
Sending love and thanks ❤️
Right. To blame is to be lame.
How often do i preach this? Often.
How often when i do it (albeit not blaming a person but an "organisation")? Often.
How often does it trigger someone when i do so? Too often. Once today actually.
i will be more careful in future. i will find a better way to get across my point of view.
Thanks for the re-minder.
Vegan cookies please :-)
:-)
Vegan cookies it is :D
p.s. Just bought some vegan mayo that actually tastes like mayo. Thank heavens and at last!
Well... lots to add here. Of course!
You can't blame an organisation! It's not conscious 😂 This makes me laugh because I still say stupid things like "screw the government" and "f*ck the cops" when I see something online and get triggered.
It's us!
I've come to the conclusion that as individuals rarely we are to blame. Mostly we don't know better yet.
En masse / in groups, however.... holy fuck! We are brutal! So... my conclusion is that it's the group/pack dynamic that causes such havoc and we should address that to better things.
Which means we really need to individuate individuals to the point that they don't fall into the pack mentality - the instinctual drive
Anyway.
Blame never helped anyone recover, skill up or level up! But this is from a personal growth perspective.
And one needs to eradicate trauma (shame) so that individuals can engage and do the personal growth work.
In addition - none of us are innocent! (Rarely)
And ALL of us are responsible. (Honestly) Mostly we aren't guilty though (confusing, I know but this goes to the psychology of the pack thing AND Jung's hypothesis on personal individuation)