The feathers once they fall from the body of a bird, are blown by the wind and go from here to there, their fate is uncertain since it does not depend on it, it could be said that it goes without direction. This is what happens many times to people, they become instantaneous, they never finish what they start, they can never be firm since at the first wind, at the first problem they are dragged into despair, grief and fear.
The bible tells us about this question and tells us in Ephesians 4:14 so that we are no longer children, tossed about by the waves and carried here and there by every wind of doctrine, by the cunning of men, by the deceitful tricks of the error; and in Peter 5:10 it says: And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, He Himself will perfect, affirm, strengthen and establish you.
I know it is difficult, but we must remain firm in Christ Jesus, trusting in Him knowing that only in a matter of time, because with Him and in Him we are more than conquerors.
God bless you and may these words be a blessing for their lives.