you have a misconception. Not being on the airdrop isn't a blacklist. The wallet at hive.blog is just broken, there is no wallet functionality there (for everyone). You can access your wallet at peakd.com (this is the rebrand of steempeak.com for the hive).
Re the airdrop, your tokens were still reserved (along with everyone else who did not receive the airdrop) and you can appeal to get your airdropped tokens at the next hardfork (which should be pretty soon as there is a ton of code changes being worked on that require a hardfork, the first hardfork was kinda just rushed to get Hive out the gates). Given what you say it should be no problem for you to win the appeal and still receive the airdrop. Understandably they could not hold up the hardfork to hear all potential disputes about the airdrop before hardforking, and the criteria were simply enforced across the board based on the blockchain data while setting up a process for people to appeal if they had been mistakenly excluded because they accidentally voted for wrong witnesses and then changed them.
There is a wallet now at hive.blog.