You aren’t blacklisted, because here you are 🙂 but I understand your frustration. There is a team working on the second phase which will included appeals process. Hopefully that will help resolve this issue.
As far as your wallet, that shouldn’t be affected by being excluded from the airdrop - your still free to use the platform as you would like. The issue probably is that the hive.wallet had not been deployed until about 30mins ago (but the peakd.com wallet has worked since launch). Try those.