True happiness means different things to different people, to some people it can be the people in their lives which is their families and friends, while to some it can be the things that they have achieved in their life. As humans one thing we should understand is that real happiness cannot be bought with money, one thing I have also come to understand about life is that happiness should come from within, self love is very crucial, once we take it upon ourselves to love ourselves then happiness is guaranteed, depending on people to find happiness will only bring more sadness because, nobody is perfect and they will one day disappoint you.
If there are things that I will love to have that will be a definition of a true happiness that would be a happy and peaceful home in the future, to be honest, one the worst things that can happen to anyone, be it a man or woman is getting married to your enemy. Many people are disguised lions in a sheep clothing, they don’t show their true colors untill they get married to someone.
Having a happy home is truly underrated, and to be honest coming back to peaceful home and a happy home is such a blessing.
So many couples who are leaving together are very unhappy, because they fell into wrong hands, some men come back home to insults and assaults and mostly the women are being physically abused by their spouse.
When I was a bit younger, we use to have a neighbor, everytime the husband comes back, he comes back to insult from his wife, especially early in the morning, after they had finished their morning devotion, the next thing that follows is quarreling and insults from his wife, this happened on a daily basis, the woman never missed any opportunity to insult the man, this continued till they moved out from the house to another location, it didn’t end there because where they moved to was actually closed to my friends house, not quite long my friend started complaining thesame thing to me.
I’m not married for now and I pray I never fall into such victim, because I might definitely handle it the wrong way and later regret it, I know I will definitely have a peaceful and happy home some day, I will definitely get it at any cost, for every good thing a sacrifice must me made. ”It is better to marry late and marry a good and peaceful person than rush into marriage and fall into the hands of an abuser and disrespectful person”
Well, I’m certaing that such happiness will last, because inner peace is everything and more, coming home to beautiful and peaceful home is such an heavenly blessing that is rare, such type of homes are blessed from God, and they will definitely last because it was ordained by our creator. So many marriages that failed today is as a results of unhappiness, wrong spouses, abuse, depression and so on.
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Hey how's it going? I liked his point of view on happiness and I completely agree with him. When we seek to find someone to be together and marry, we may be getting together with a person who will do great good or great harm to our lives.
As a really important event in our lives, marriage should be thought out and done calmly, as it will change everything we know and for sure, it's a good thing that we get together with someone who will really want to make us happy!
Exactly, it should be thought out calmly, because what ever decision we make we definitely affect our lives in the future
Truly happiness is derived from within because it all depends on how an individual feel about certain things or about himself or herself.
Matters of marriage have always been a little confusing for me, we all pray to be with the right and good partner but the thing is some marriages starts very good but eventually becomes toxic based on a lot of factors such as financial crisis, lack of communication, sexual desires and barrenness e.t.c I realised there are some uncontrollable circumstances that occur in marriage that it only takes the help of God to scape through.
Apart from praying for an healthy marriage, a person needs to seek the help of God to bless the union and their journey to happiness.
Like I always say, there is no worst hell than marrying a nagging partner😅😂
A nagging partner is hell truly😂, thanks for dropping a comment✨
Someone once said that work, home and your car should not give you problem.
This family clearly has a slim chance of a peaceful walk in life
Exactly why should get a peaceful one at any cost
I wonder why people rush into marriage, guess they forget it's a long life commitment. My sister is better late than sad, heartbroken and every other bad thing but sometimes don't also be careful
Hmm, well I hope we all find true happiness!
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Big amen to that
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