When you want to take a step back ... How to be?
The process of self-development is endless. And what we considered to be true a year ago, today can be just one side of our path and experience. Today we may already have a different strategy and other preferences. This is normal. This suggests that earlier we had passed the necessary experience in order to move smoothly to the next level of development.
If we receive any knowledge or experience, we are hardly able to turn back. Because the received consciousnesses have made their mark in the current part of life. And the old way does not work. Because you can see past mistakes. But going forward also does not always seem possible to us because of not knowing what way to go further.
At such times, you want to quit, close, and live as you lived before. This can be affected by certain strong confluences of circumstances. It seems that everything turned upside down and that earlier it was calmer and more predictable.
It is important to understand: with the beginning of strong upheavals in our lives, we begin to really live. Before that, there was a quiet harbor where it would be impossible to develop.
Unpleasant events may occur, for example, loss of work. But, in fact, there is no trouble. This is just the beginning of the road. Life nullifies all our chances, in which our personality could just slowly smolder.
At this time, the universe opens up new opportunities for us to find work, find ourselves and our place in this world. So often we believe that life unfairly throws us from side to side. Although it pushes us to where there is room for growth. And only at the end of time we understand that we needed this bitter experience for our own good.
Remember your most powerful upheavals and events, where it seemed that life was breaking you. Do you now think so? You have acquired the most valuable experience, have become wiser and understand why all this happened.
Do not ask questions: "Why did this happen?", "Why should I?". Better ask: "What do I need this for?" , "What should I understand?", "What will I become when I go through all this?". As Robert Kiyosaki says: "Failure is part of luck." It is really so. Life will never give us conditions that we can not overcome. And if there were no difficulties, then we would remain children.
When the system hangs in the computer, what do we do? We demolish the system and install a new one that runs smoothly. So in life, first our belief system and values break down, and then a real life begins, bright, filled with new colors, emotions and possibilities.
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If life gives you a bunch of lemons, make lemonade. Inspirational. Thanks.
I recently started to think like this. When something unexpected or bad happened, instead of crying about it (although of course I did a bit of that too) I've become quick to think "what does the universe want me to learn?".
Wise words. After all, smooth seas don't make skilful sailors.