How to recognize the signs that you are paying debts of your ancestors.

in #life7 years ago (edited)

Many people often complain about how much they did not try, how much effort they did not put, EVERYTHING GOING WRONG.
Do not achieve success in their careers, personal life does not go well, and in general, everything that planned does not go as well, as would be desirable.
Many people do not even guess what the reason may be. some people think that maybe it's just not luck or someone jinxed, or maybe it's just not their destiny..
It turns out that, the great influence on your life has ancestors, and even those who are many years gone, are our grand-grand-grand-grand grandparents, whom we did not even know.

How to understand that you are suffering from the influence of yours ancient ancestors?
Psychologists have found some clear signs:

ANNIVERSARY SYNDROME

Check dates: birthday, weddings, birthdays of children, and so far.
If you find that these dates are repeated, then this indicates a close connection between you and your ancestors.

NAME SIGNIFICANCE

Name of a person is the foundation of his identity and of being in this world.
If you decide to give your child the name of one of the ancestors (the other generation), this should be the reason for a more detailed examination of this person.
If you are named in honor of one of the ancestors, then it is worth exploring your connection.

RELATIONSHIPS AND ROLE EXPECTATIONS IN THE FAMILY

Try to find out from relatives what relations were in the family of our ancestors.
Perhaps your ancestors adopted destructive roles and passed them on to you.
A variety of variants of this make their mark on you.

FAMILY SECRETS

The presence of secrets in the family, which is a shame to discuss. For example, mental illness, suicide, imprisonment and ...
Suddenly visited a fear or an inexplicable attack of anxiety can say that you are tormented by something from the past.
Sometimes you need to create one adult and brave deed, which the ancestors of your ancestors could not do - UNDERSTAND, FORGIVE, AND RELEASE.

FAMILY MYTHS

Family customs and traditions unite and give feelings of being needed, belonging, and security - on the one hand.
On the other hand - rigid adherence to all customs or ritual, when a step to the left or a step to the right denotes -Shooting. On the contrary, it limits the development of man and negatively affects his psychoemotional state. Everything is good in moderation.

Every person is born to be happy. If you at least have a little understanding of the simile problems, you will breathe a sigh of relief and the senses of anxiety will leave you. You yourself will see how life itself will go in the right way.