I definitely agree with you on this, but I just want to share a case of a friend wherein she's very reluctant in life -- yes generally.
Reluctance in life
I was sharing with her how she needs to find out the things she want in life as well as the things she love doing. But she always have nothing to share -- she keeps on telling herself that she doesn't know what she wants. And that makes her sad. This cycle is consuming her, and sometimes, I feel I have done enough.
Hoping
Anyway, maybe she'll wake up on day, with a grand eureka moment. Hopefully, this will happen soon, not only to her, but to all those who are confused in life.