Not sure what you meant by a tip, I checked my wallet in case that is what you meant but there was nothing there about 18 hrs after your comment here.
This was a hard post to write for me and took a lot out of me, so I am just writing a basic message back today, to thank everyone that took time to comment on this or vote for it, I really appreciate it, I just don't have much more to say on the issue.
Thank you very much for the support.