The whole scene of going out and also the era of dating apps if primarily over. I ended up getting drug out by a guy that goes to my gym. A 24 year old military vet. We just randomly were at the gym at the same time and were just talking in the parking lot afterwards and he was wanting to go out.
I told him there isn't really anything out there. Sure enough it was real thin and no women to talk to. Extreme low quality scene. I expected that because nothing has ever went back to pre covid activity and even then it wasn't anything special.
I told him our only shot was to head to another town. Some of these places spent the money to make the atmosphere right but everything has fallen apart. Most men have given up completely and are just getting high and playing video games.
In situations in the past if they went out women would act real abrasive and act like the guys were creeps even if the guys comparatively had a better look compared to the women.
We hopped to one last place which used to have a line out the door years ago. It was pretty flat overall but there were 3 sets of women to talk to which wasn't good.
One chick I challenged to a game of pool and my friend verbally said he was betting $20 on me. She already was going to be playing a couple other people so I figured we would talk to some other chicks. We were talking to a group of 3 very basic chicks. They acted extremely awkward. Even spitting elite game it wasn't going anywhere.
We then moved on to the two hottest girls in the bar. We honestly really did work an elite set with them. Had them laughing. We were throwing popcorn trying to land it in their mouth from 10 feet away and they were doing the same to us.
The one chick i was focused on was 5'10" blonde hair and blue eyes. I measured my hand against hers. Mine was bigger which i knew would be the case and i know it sounds silly but women like guys with big hands and that is one way I initiate physical contact with women.
The other girl was 24 and the chick I was focused on was 25.
My buddy noticed the other chick had a picture of a baby on her phone. He asked if she was a mom and she said she was and was going through a divorce.
The chick I was mainly focused on said something to the effect that they became moms kind of early. A few other things were said and my buddy said, "Let's get out of here." We bounced out. Didn't get their contact info or any of that.
What you realize is the stock is so low in the United States it has become embarasing.
One of the biggest things that throws it off is social media. Women get so much attention now and when we view attention as a currency women think they are way more valuable than guys who are way more built up than them.
A lot of the upper caliber 8s and 9s in their early to mid 20s who aren't single moms are remaining single or possibly going lesbian for awhile. I have seen this A LOT lately.
The nightlife scene, the dateing apps, and being able to approach chicks and have decent conversion is over in the United States.
There should be no wonder why young men are giving up. They are being asked to work for free to maybe get a half smile from an overweight single mom. They would rather play video games and get high.
I'm going to lift now. I have to be ready to join an Amish community!
I really cannot understand how wimminz believe, that after another man's child, they still have market value.
And if you are a "father" type person, you wife her up, and you will be twice gutted at divorce. You put so much work into father-child relationship, and it is ripped from you without any chances.
Things are getting really bad out there. And wimminz do not realize it. They are dating older, and getting by, but do not realize they aren't getting any traction. Attention yes, commitment no. They destroy their lives for nothing.
I think i will start a company that makes sex dolls and cat trees! Yeah. That's the path. (em crai)
I go back and forth on that as well if they are fronting but deep down know their value has been severely deminished when they are a single mom or if they think their value is still elevated.
I think a lot of women tell themselves a lie and then think if they repeat it a bunch it becomes reality.
I know this chick that is actually pretty smart for everyday stuff and graduated from Purdue but when it got brought up about how a woman would be competing with the other women in that area and the men are competing with the other men she kept trying to say she isn't competing and there is no competition.
I had to debate back and forth with her about this very obvious reality but she kept trying to tell herself it was more of a match type thing where she isn't really competing with a 21 year old smoke show because a 33 year old man should be with her instead of the 21 year old. I had to keep telling her that isn't how it works and that if he can get traction with a younger, hotter woman, with no kids he is going to spend his time and energy on that and that the same goes for my situation. If I'm up against a better looking guy who is in the Big Leagues he is going to look like a better option.
I see it a lot of times with divorced women. 99% of the time these women are better off staying with their baby daddies instead of getting back out there. They think they are going to pick up where they left off when they were 19 and didn't have kids. Women will do this at all different ages too. I have seen women do it at 25, 30, 35, 40, 45.
Also another thing is a lot of movies depict these situations where the single mom gets swooped up by a badass. Look at the movie Independence Day. Will Smith is a fighter pilot flying at the nap of the Earth through canyons to take down an advanced Alien fighter with Superior technology just to "rescue" a single mom who was a stripper. I mean WTF???
Look at the new Top Gun movie. Tom Cruise is playing a character that is the supposed best fighter pilots of a generation to be dealing with a single mom situation.
So in some regards I understand a lot of people have been brainwashed about it.
As a regular man I do think it becomes easier to get tangled up in situations like that when the options look real limited.
All I know is the whole scene is fully blown out and people are just working to have enough gas to get to work the next day and do it all over again.
A lot of people with better genetics aren't breeding and if extreme action isn't taken by each individual man their bloodlines will die out.
Me and this dude Mike were the Apex Predators out there and everyone knew it. That isn't saying much and it didn't land us anything. Some thing at the gyms. It oftentimes does convert. The volume of game that is required would break a Boomer's mind if they saw all the connections and what it amounts to.