The Friendzone

in #life7 years ago (edited)

Is there anything worse than being stuck in the Friendzone?

I am married now and having passed through that ordeal I decided to offer some support for those "suffering"

I saw recently a clip that illustrated the pain of having to bear the turmoil within that "category". It was funny but for those guys who really like that special friend so much that you are not willing to risk of the friendship for full disclosure, I have a couple words of advice.

  1. The risk of rejection is better than silently suffering in the Friendzone. Chances are this friend knows how you feel about her so why not chance telling her exactly how you feel. Rejection makes you stronger, believe it or not.

  2. This friend may actually feel the same way about you. This friend may be dying to let you tell her rather than assuming she is reading the signs of your intentions.

  3. Is this girl really worth hanging around with her knowing that you may be shy and still toying you around.

She may be the center of you world right now but take a good look at yourself and ask are you worth just being a comet in someone's interplanetary system when you can actually the sun in someone else's world.