Single
This manner of behavior for serious business people, who at work is used only to work. If this behavior is close to you, then do not try to change. Look narrowly at colleagues, communicate only on business. Of course, in such a situation it is difficult to find close friends, but for a hermit - this is not the main task. After all, at work - work! But the staff, who are doing their job well and correctly, are noticed by their superiors. And you need to be friends with your superiors! Another plus sign of this behavior is that you will always perform all the tasks you set, and you will not be distracted by any chatter. But in the evening after work, you can invite colleagues to go to a cafe and talk heart to heart.
Curious Barabara
This tactic is for those who want to know everything! On the first day of work, ask a colleague to show you the office, find out where they go to eat, where it's delicious and inexpensive to take lunch, be yourself, get acquainted. You'll see, everyone will be very pleased to meet a new person. Ask your colleagues about their hobbies, how much time they already work in the company, what they do, how they spend their free time. Everyone loves sociable people. But any communication and curiosity should be in moderation. Do not bend the stick and try not to turn from curiosity to gossip, do not discuss the personal life of colleagues, especially behind their backs, and you will be loved and appreciated as an active member of the collective who is not indifferent to people.