How normal is being normal

dumar022 (70)in #life • 9 years ago

You claim that you are normal.

I claim that I am normal.

But my "normal" is not normal to you and your "normal" is not normal to me. If we make a compromise, then everything becomes abnormal for both of us. So, don't try to force your "normal" upon me. I would rather choose to be abnormal to me than normal to you. You do what you think that is normal and I will do what I think is normal. And I will not judge you about your normality.

You grew up in circumstances that are normal to you and those circumstances created a normal person - normal "you" and that's normal for you. I grew up in family that I consider as normal and that's how was made a "normal me".

But your "normal" and my "normal" are completely different, so, from the perspective of a third person (that isn't normal for me, nor for you) both of us are abnormal. And he is completely jerk for both of us. Does that make us the same normal?

I refuse to accept "your normal" for myself and I will definitely not try to force "my normal" upon you.

Do what you want, but that is not normal to me. If more people agree with you that I am not normal, then, shit, I have to ask myself about me being "normal" to myself.
But I will accept "your normal" for you! Your "normal" is good for you and my "normal" is good for me. I am highly educated person who looks and acts as a homeless hooligan, and that's completely normal to me! Just be normal and leave "my normal" alone!