I am going to be baring my self transparently here, as I get to know my self.
I have been introduced to the Myers Briggs personality type before, but never in the detail. of explication and information as it is presented by personalityhacker.com
They start by breaking down each type into what they call the "car model," with a Driver, CoPilot, 10 Year Old, and 3 Year Old aspect of the personality and processing.
If anyone feels like starting to explore their type using this model and community, I would love to talk!
My type is: ENFJ
DRIVER = Harmony (decision making and judging process, the basis for SHOULD statements)
- Very aware of how people emotionally impact each other (micro to macro). Can be as complex as how entire societies and cultures impact each other.
- Sometimes seen as judgemental because social harmony and roles as to how one should interact are obvious to them. They can also get confused if others do not pick up as quickly on these social roles and cues.
- They will bend over backwards to meet others needs, and to play their part in being responsible for others feelings and their part in the infinite network of interaction.
- Sometimes they are so good at anticipating the needs of others that others will rely on them to perform this function for everyone else. Sometimes they perform this task so effortlessly that others don't even realize that they are doing it and it can become thankless and exhausting process of anticipating needs and meeting them. This is an extroverted gift that thrives on feedback, but frequently the ENFJ only receives outside commentary when the process of harmony IS NOT taken care of.
- This feeling that work is ceaseless, and that feedback only comes when things go wrong, can lead to tantrums and emotional outbursts. Then the ENFJ can be written off as being over emotional.
- Can read a room very easily, and see who is who in the room, and get a "quick hit" of connection with nearly anyone. However, what really fuels this type is quality not quantity, and they really thrive with super deep soul connections.
- If they dig deeper and show themselves as they really are at a soul level, not how they know people want them to appear, they will loose quantity, but gain quality, and will truly feel seen.
- Can greatly benefit from a calm and sacred space, like yoga or meditation, to allow calm introspection and self love. This allows these people to be at peace with expressing their emotions and their gift.
In the flow state, ENFJ is asking:
HOW SHOULD SOCIETY BE BUILT?
- What unspoken social contracts should we be upholding? How should societies and cultures interact and respond to each other?
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Thank you for letting me talk to you a bit about my Driver (HARMONY) it is amazing for me to unpack my personality like this, and in turn to share my self transparently <3
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