That all of our relationships primarily reflects the relationship that we cultivate with ourselves, I probably don't need to emphasize much more.
Our internal disagreements cause problems to us as well as others. If we trust, we can listen and feel good in our own skin. If you would like to know how well you are doing in the most important relationship between all relationships, it will be clear to you when you complete the following sentence: "If you talk to your friends the way you speak to yourself, you...".
I have collected 12 clear signs for you that show that you don't trust yourself and that you have a bad opinion about yourself.
- You judge too quickly
Every time you get angry about someone - whether behind their back or directly - you meet with your own shadow. What you have just thrown someone in his face is what you should notice and first heal inside you. Fast and sharp judgments of others are an overwhelmed expression of your own fears and problems. Think about how you would feel if those words were directed at you.
- You search for a confirmation from others
When we feel that something is missing, we are looking for confirmation from other people - in short, outside of ourselves. The emptiness you want to fill is filled by others. Because we don't listen, we don't have the tools to fill the void differently. In reality, everything you are looking for outside of yourself is already within you. All you should have done is ask yourself what you really want.
- You put yourself in the last place
Working for others, helping them, teaching them... it's true, this can bring us pleasure and joy. The problem arises when we try to accommodate others in everything. When distributing your time, energy, attention and kindness, don't overlook the warnings - those lights that blink in your car and tells you that your tank is empty. Stop the car (yourself) at a stop or a pump.
- You do what you don't like all the time
If the work and relations in your life don't satisfy you, but on the contrary making you sad, angry, and tired, you just have to know, that this isn't good for you. If you persist in such relationships for too long, you will soon become sick. The world around you is full of people who haven't done so, and today they are suffering from depression and anxiety. Get together and do something. Stop the series of dissatisfaction. Only in this way can you be sure that something better might be waiting for your next turn.
- You're angry
You are constantly angry. Anger is also a sign that you are not satisfied. Have you ever wondered if those, who are you angry about, really deserve to withstand this strong emotion directed to them? The anger should really remind you that it's the final time to take some you time.
- Your mood depends on others
Do your parents, friends, colleagues, and bosses share tips on how to work and live? Even when you didn't ask for help or advice? What if you don't follow their advice? There is nothing wrong with listening to them and thinking about their advice, but it is essential that you finally decide on the basis of your findings and feelings. It's for you and your life.
- You lie to accommodate others
In order to have peace, and please to impress them, you tell a little bit of a lie. Don't do this. Don't lie and don't humiliate yourself only to accommodate others. Those who can't see the truth and accept it - they aren't worth it. It's a waste of time for them.
- You hide your emotions
Most people wear masks in public, under which they hide their true emotions. Are you pretending to be someone else? You conceal and mask your confusion, emptiness, regret, and sadness with drugs, sedatives, and alcohol? If you use everything on hand to override your own thoughts, you need to know that when you silence yourself, you also lose everything that is good for you.
- You can't do it anymore because everything that happens it even worse?
When you can't process the past and face past actions, a lot of bad energy is accumulating in you. You often say, "Something bad, again. There is too much of everything, I can't do it anymore "? Didn't you manage to really face yourself? Or others? Was it simpler that all you made a mess and went further? It's no wonder that you slowly pile up everything. Some of them also say the middle-aged crisis. But anyway, once you will have to deal with the problem. Consider, analyze and deepen into yourself. When you come to the conclusion where it is, remove the problem, and then go further. Namely, the purpose of suffering is not to last, but to awaken the soul.
- You are very strict with yourself
Life is learning. And there is no learning without error. Therefore: stop counting what you once did wrong. In most cases, you simply didn't know better. If you would act differently in a similar situation today, you learned lessons and personally grew up. Stop then scouring for something that you have been and be proud of what you (including past mistakes) have become.
- You don't listen to intuition
Intuition is our inner voice. Your blue guide is so wise that it will not force you to listen to it. But when you finally begin to trust it, it will guide you well.
- You don't follow the heart
Even before your brain processes emotions, your heart knows what's good for you. So trust your instincts. There is nothing wrong with weighing your feelings and experiences and separating them from one another - just as you are separating clean from the fresh laundry. When you come clear, just follow your heart. This will always lead you to the right path.
Be faithful to yourself. When you respect your personal gifts and talents, you fulfill your destiny and at the same time serve others.
Good post friends, I love it.
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God bless you dude, perfect thoughts. I wish I wrote this article ))
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Hehe... ;) You don't know how many amazing articles I wish I had written. But that's the way of life. We are so unique and different. And thank you!
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Awesome photography......like your post....
Thank you.
your post is very nice...you write about a important mater...and your writeing style is very good....best of luck brother
Thank you, but without harsh feelings - I'm a girl. ;)
Well, I found that '101 ways' doesn't literally means 101 ways, right?
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I think it literally means 101- :) Just a random number started in my head, and now I have to stick to it. You will see. ;)
"you hide your emotion" that was my problem.
I think this is the problem of many. You just need some true people around you, with whom you can bee yourself and show your emotions. Gradually, you will be able to trust people around you more and you never know, maybe you can become whole other person.
happiness is the key to success.good post forever @emmamia
Thank you! It really is.
Nice article. Reading the 12 signs, it seems that I do/feel some of which might mean that I have some trust issues towards myself but it’s really difficult to adjust, specifically in the professional world wherein one will always be the center of scrutiny and judgment of different people. Nevertheless, this article really articulated what I feel right now and I will really try my best to change my view, which I know will be for my own good.
I think when reading a post like this we all start to think about us, and how we behave. I know that when I hear something useful, I just don't always acknowledge it. But when I read something, sometimes even more than once, then I just start thinking about it and try to make some changes in me. But every change is hard. So we really have to put some time and thought into it and just try the best to do it.
Very good post, thank you for sharing!
When I was reading it, I understood that there is only one explanation- you love yourself or not. If you love yourself, then you do not have any of the points above. Love is the answer <3
As simple as that. But still so hard to achieve it.
Awesome photography
Thank you.
very beautiful flower that you show this @emmamia
Thank you.
Really like the first photo, that water drops are so explicit.
Thank you. I'm really glad you like them.
Wow, what a post. It was such a lesson. Thank you very much! :D
Thank you for stopping by and taking some time to read through. I try to help me and others, so reading comments like yours are like music to my ear. Have a great day.
Thabks for this smashing analysis of human behavior. What I see from these is a key factor: self- love. I believe that lack of love, or presence thereof, can define how we self relate. It is strange to consider the fact that some people are strangers with themselves. They are not at home with themselves- inwardly of course. But like you rightly said, the key is to be faithful, to be true to one's self.
Exactly. I just wonder how did we come to this point, where most of us are so insecure and so pessimistic? Where does it happen - when we are still kids, or later on when we start going to school or work? A lot to think about, but I don't know if any would know exactly when and why. Thank you for stopping by!
You are welcome... I just hut the follow button. Looking forward to more interesting articles like this.