I can remember my face burning with shame when my mother would send us to the neighbors to ask for milk or a cup of sugar. She didn't want to do it, so she sent us. I always try to keep the dignity of the person in mind, so that they can accept help without being shamed in front of other people. If they don't know you gave the gift, they don't feel beholden to you, know what I mean? I also believe that good deeds come back to you in one way or another when you need them the most. :)
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Yep, I know exactly what you mean.