Self love #Love for life

in #life6 years ago (edited)


LEARN TO SAY I LOVE ME BEFORE I SAY I LOVE YOU

    One of the most beautiful feelings that the human being can feel is love, love is essential to live, our whole life is based on this beautiful feeling. When we talk about love we do not only refer to love for our partner, we also reflect this feeling when we talk about a child or a pet, there is even love for nature and many other things, but:

      What about love for ourselves?

        Loving is important but to love someone we must start by loving ourselves, loving and valuing ourselves is fundamental to be able to love another person, to be good with himself.

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            Are we okay in a relationship where you love but feel insecure about yourself?

              The answer in NO, for a relationship to work, you must feel safe, not allow the other person to make you feel less and less, when we know what we are worth and we are good with our personality, we should not care what others think, we should not allow others to impose on us things that make us unhappy, people who want to be involved in our lives should accept us as we are, it does not mean that we are not open to hearing any kind of opinion that person has for us but always and when it respects what we are and does not force us to change to satisfy ourselves.

                Is it okay to accept help?

                  It is good to accept criticism as long as it is to help and not to feel wrong, it is important to be good with our appearance and if there is a helping hand that wants to help and support you much better, the important thing when making the decision to improve our appearance is to do it to be well with ourselves and not to please anyone else, the people who really love you are never going to impose a change you do not want.

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                      Loving yourself fills us with satisfaction and peace, when we begin to value ourselves is where others begin to value you, we should not pretend to be who we are not to make anyone happy even if that person matters to us, if we do this the unhappy we will be We, when someone loves you, accept you and support you just for the certainty that you are happy.

                        Each person has their own personality, it is a mistake that tries to correct that we love to make ourselves happy in ourselves, it is to act with selfishness. To always think of the happiness of the being that we love is an act of love.
                          We must begin by accepting ourselves, begin to value ourselves and love ourselves, if the person you like does not accept you then discard it and open someone who loved you and accepts you for the person you are then that is where you will experience true happiness, we must not allow people hurt us and lower our self-esteem, this does not mean that we are going to act with arrogance but to act in a safe way.
                            Remind people how beautiful they are and how much they are worth, we do not know who may need it at this moment, let's not forget that we should help our brothers as much as possible, act with love and with the faith that each person we reach out to can make the change to live in a better world.

                                GOD BLESS YOU

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                                Así es, si no nos amamos a nosotros mismos y no amamos a Dios, cómo podemos decir que amamos a los demás?