So some people have asked me what girls are looking for when they are on dating site. If she is there on the assumption that she isn’t looking to sell herself , her cam site , her pictures or her Nigerian Uncles Trunk of money.
Here is what we find ...
There are three types of guys a girl will usually meet on a dating site .
Too put it in context, suppose three guys are sitting on a park bench or in a Niagara on the lake. All 3 know is there is an equestrian camp about 1/4 mile away. In the distance They hear a sound of hoofs trotting towards them. So what do they say to each other ?
Guy 1. I hear hoofs down the trail what could that be ? Even in a strange town and only knowing there is an equestrian camp down the road he will logically turn on say it must be a horse. quick and simple common sense . That makes up about 65% of the kind of people a girl will meet. Fairly normal logical thinking people.
The second type of guy would be next to him on the park bench when he hears the same sound coming from the trail. This guy though is slightly peculiar he will turn to the others and say wow it must be a Zebra . Not very likely, first of all I don’t know of any Canadian Zebra wandering loose, Second I’ve never actually heard what a Zebra sounds like as it walks down a trail third there’s no indication that a zebra would have any reason to be there. However with all that said there is although a micro fraction of a percent that it could be a zebra because the Zebras do exist. They do have four legs and do walk similar to horse.
The third type a guy is the one we always regret he’s the one who will hear the trotting and turn to the others and say it must be a Unicorn. These are the guys we call woo woo’s people who are so far out of reality that they don’t even have the ability to distinguish reality from fantasy. The funny thing is this is the exact type of person who are usually going to get the first date. They tend to be able to create spectacular stories so convincing that they can present it in a way that it’s believable. I speak seven languages, I work for NASA , I’m a Govt Secret Agent, I graduated from MIT. Those are the ones who claim they can proverbially fly and if I opened the balcony sliding door and asked them to demonstrate they would end up being shoveled into a coffin.
So we have our normal guy who uses regular common sense and have some reason and logic . Just need to learn how to adjust it.
Secondly we have the ones who stretch the factual possibilities to nearly breaking point but stay within the realm of reality. And then we have the Woo Woo’s who have no idea what they say or do because they are so out of touch with reality nothing can change their mind.
So which one do you think get a most first dates which one gets the most second dates which one gets to date three . It may really surprised the hell out of you.
PS : Read my Valentine’s Day love languages post coming later, if you’re going to do something for your significant other , on that day or any day you may want to run a little bit about the five love languages just because someone is receptive to one LL. Does not mean that they express the same type.
Cheers
Sierra