When we should not be proud of ourselves because of a charity, we should not insult other people because the charity used to be because of my shallow understanding, indeed I had tried to become a judge for other people not in accordance with my principles. When my khimar / veil is wider than others, or I do not post photos in medsos, then I respond to others by antipathy, correcting, or putting it in my heart, "How come he ... It's supposed to be like this ..." Indirectly I have boasted my charity and humiliated my own brother for not giving charity like me As a result I am so difficult to be friends, not calm because focus on the differences. Immediately I was cured when I found out that the first person I judge is a hafizah, a lot of charity, more awake environment, and noble nasabnya. Huh ... so ashamed of myself
So I learned to better manage the heart But looking for perfection in humans is a futile job. If you continue to search for blemishes and imperfections, then your mother will be your judge let alone someone else. That way I better restrain myself from judging others. I am ready to absorb the good and pray for one another brother. I dare not boast of this little charity with others who may be more pleased with Allah SWT. Especially aware that we have been a sinner, even always ... again and again. Allah ... forgive us There is a prayer from my first routine lafazkan to fortify myself from assessing the value of others,
"Our Lord, forgive us and our brothers who have believed in us first, and do not let our envy in our hearts against those who believe, Our Lord! Lo! You are the Most Merciful, Most Merciful." (QS 59: 100) Where do we know why we are so easy to share with others because of our diseased heart Nauudzubillah ... Protect us O Allah.
It s very beautiful.