@justiceoses, it is a good write up you have here. i see in it, the call for forgiveness. it is expedient as Christians to forgive our offenders whenever- however- no matter what. suc h were we taught by Jesus and it is the major condition by which we could obtain forgiveness from God. remember the story of the unforgiving servant in Matt 18.21-30 and the wordings of "Our Lord's prayer".
about love however, you cant separate love from expectations. love and expectations are inseparable, however, there should be limits to or moderacy in the expectations. Read John 14:15 "if you love me, you will keep my commands"