Vlog#1Why Chinese girl want to be single?为什么中国女孩想要单身？

Why many young Chinese girl want to be single? Don’t they like live with man? The reason may be not that.
为什么越来越多的中国少女想要单身而不是结婚或是找个男盆友，难道她们是不喜欢跟男人生活的古墓派吗？其实原因并不是那样。

我身边的女性朋友，有相貌出众或事业有成或性格讨巧的，她们身边也并不缺乏追求者。但每年过年回家必定面临的“鬼门关”-亲友的催婚。包括我。如果不是爸妈生日都在新年期间，我真的就跑去国外躲个清静了。

而真正挣扎着单身，宁愿养宠物度日的原因

我总结为以下几点：
1.高中起就不让我们早恋，到了大学却来催我们结婚？！毛病吧？

2.两个人可以节约生活成本，闺蜜也可以住一起啊。（都没有女同倾向）

3.男生喜欢打游戏，逛个街都没人陪。

4.大学毕业催结婚，结完婚了催怀孕，生完孩子，你还有自己的时间吗？

以上是常常听到的几句话。但是从中也不难看出里面真正的原因。
1.中国女孩允许来谈恋爱和寻找交往对象的时间太少了。

2.跟兴趣相投的闺蜜住一起，这样的单身主义其实代表的是一个打开的寻找更多机会的方式。

3.中国女孩，在上天赋予的生育压力之外还希望在社会中打拼成全自己的事业。

4.一旦有了孩子，母亲的天性会导致自己事事孩子优先，自己感兴趣的事业几乎就成了遥不可及的梦。

以上，就是我自己体会的为什么越来越多的中国女孩选择单身？的原因，也许还不够全面，希望大家也能给我些意见和建议。

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The female friends around me, who are good-looking or successful in business, actually many pursuers around them. But every time on the New Year Eve they must face the "ghost gate" - parents and relatives persuaded them get marriage,no matter the girl have boyfriend or not. Including me. Sometimes I really want go abroad and hide during Chinese New Year.

The reason why my friends really struggle to be single:
1.Getting married is the ultimate goal of a couple in China.

2.Chinese girls are allowed to fall in love and find a partner with too little time. Parents and teachers ban us fall in love in high school , when we go to university ,but they urge us to get marry！

3.The singleness represents an open way to find more good people.

3.Chinese girls, ont only want to be a housewife, we also want to make our own careers in society.

4.After a girl gets married, she must’ve baby.

5.But,After we married and having a child, the mother's nature will lead her to prioritize everything for her children, and the career which she is interested in will almost become a distant dream.

That's all I know. Why are more and more Chinese girls choosing to be single? The reason, may not be comprehensive enough, I hope you can also give me some advice and suggestions. If you like it.^^