The weather has changed for the worse, we have had so much rain, strong winds and the temperature has dropped dramatically. I am not complaining as going through he Menopause having hot flushes the colder weather is lovely but my flowers aren't enjoying the winds and cold weather. This weather is going to continue until Sunday where it should get a little warmer and only the odd shower of rain.
My daughter has gone to her boyfriends for the weekend that means me and hubby have the whole weekend to ourselves, no moaning about being bored, no moaning abut there's nothing to eat even though the freezer, fridge and cupboards are full. I really didn't think I would cope when my house was empty but with the last few weekends I have enjoyed it, not sure if I could manage having an empty nest permanently.
Seeing my little girls growing up and being independent is good but amazing how fast time has gone. Doesn't seem that ago me and hubby we discussing trying for a baby, 2 children and 29 years have flown by. Our house used to be noisy and messy now there's nothing but silence when my youngest stays out.
My oldest is 29 this year, thinking back to when I was 29 thee same age as her me and hubby were just starting off moving into the house we live in now, we decided to buy instead of rent as wanted a house to pass onto my girls when we had gone. This year in December the house is officially ours. All the worrying, stress and rows we had about money is now all in the past and I sit here thinking all that time wasted worrying about something that was easily sorted out has taught me not to worry until there is something to worry about, not to let the little things get in the way. Don't waste your time focusing on what goes wrong because believe me those moments are gone in a flash, enjoy what you have and be in the moment and a big piece of advise is don't forget to look up and down. don't miss a thing.
Would I do things differently, possibly I wouldn't jump over the wall that damaged my knee. I would have took more Photographs of my family and would have been more focused on money, not buying things I didn't need, spending money I didn't have and never have used credit card. I have earned bug lessons just to late to do anything about. I pass this on to my daughters, put the seed of thought in to there heads and hopefully they do better than me. I am thankful they both will not get into debt, they would rather save for what they want or do without.
Me and hubby have just enjoyed a take away, hubby had a curry whilst I have 5 cod bites and chips, 4 cod bites for me and one to share between the pups, they do love chunk of fish. That's me full and the pups happy. I now have to take my daughters bird Sprout to bed before I can get myself ready for bed.
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O no you get use to being on your own without kids and demands very quickly hahaha
I think i could quite easily get used to it lol