I am so pleased i have got all the heavy work in my garden as hubby is not very well. He's had a lot of problems with a hernia he got after we nearly lost him after his bowel burst. He had been in to get it sorted but moved to much and it popped.
Just before the Coronavirus he realised he had 2 hernia's, he was then referred to a specialist who diagnosed him with 2. He was booked to go in to get them fixed but then the Virus put a stop to everything.
He's been back to work a month now, he was hoping he could hang on for the operation until next year when the Mortgage and debts would be cleared, we would then be able to afford him to have 6 weeks on the sick. Unfortunately he has come in from work in agony. The 2nd hernia is moving further down to his privates. He has a Drs appointment tomorrow morning.
We are going to have to go ahead with the operation now before it gets any worse.
That will be 2 of us in pain and not being able to do much. Hubby will have to take 6 weeks off those 6 weeks are going to be long and hard. We have my youngest daughter who is here as my carer, she is going to find it very hard doing all the heavy stuff around the house.
Thankfully my garden is just about finished, i don't need anything changing at the moment.
Why can't things ever go right, a years time it wouldn't be a problem but now its going to put us under a lot of pressure. He may have to take more than 6 weeks off as will have to wait until his turn.
Argggghh i could scream.
So sorry that you are having such difficult times. You just can't seem to catch a break. Hopefully, all will turn out well for hubby's surgery and he won't have to wait very long.
I hope so hun, things start looking up then bang knocked back again. ๐