LightStealers a.k.a Energy Vampires

in #life4 years ago
  1. The vampires unnoticed
  2. How they do it
  3. What to do

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I just thought up of the name(lightstealers), not sure if it has been used before but I do like the sound of it. So, there are, and have been these stealers of your light and energy, your spirit and passion all throughout your life. Most of the time it's the people closest to you who steal parts of you, a lot of the times, unknowingly.

It took me a long time to notice, but now that I do it's so obvious. Here's some quick examples, some big, some silly, all equally energy stealing.

You are exercising : Person says exercising is stupid, whats the point? You are going to hurt yourself anyways. Why dont you do something more useful. (This is because they themselves have nothing to do, and probably want you to do for them). (Subconsciously they probably don't even like to see any form of progress in another, as it reminds them of their failure). Again this is sometimes done on purpose, most of the time though, people don't notice what they are doing to another.

Critique of the way you do things, even though you are helping them and getting the job done.

Basically most of it comes down to, (be like me, or I will be unhappy, and therefore you did this to me). More manipulation and stealing of your energy and happyness.

Last but not least, I feel there is always some form of energy exchange between us and our evironment and the people in it. So If you are feeling low, here are two simple things you can try to get your(energy)(lifeforce) back and see if my energy theory is real.

Get away from low energy(negative) people for as long as possible. Otherwise you will begin to resonate with their frequency, unsconsciously. You won't even notice, but you have lost energy, enthusiasm etc...

Find an uplifting environment, or make one, your room etc. Be the energy you want to attract basically. Be aware though, if you have to engage with low energy people, you will likely lose some of your spark for a while. It takes work to grow in a negative environment, but some of the strongest people come out of these situations.

Finally, let your heart guide you. Be with the positive(energy) life sharing people. Life is too short to stay where you are because of fear or feelings of obligation. You owe no one nothing. You owe you, You owe it to yourself to see how much light you have... before it is extinguished in this form we share at this moment. Go from that top picture to this bottom one. From Dark to Light, from stolen energy to having your energy back.

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Thanks to Pexels and Rafael Serafim + Julia Kuzenkov for the photos.

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