We are all trying to achieve goals and part of this time is the collision with strange and uncomfortable situations, difficult decisions and unpleasant twists. We choose whether to take the step or miss it, hoping for another opportunity, but also filling with a strong sense of guilt.
What are we actually accused of - we think we are weak that we have disappointed those who believe in us that we are wasting our lives. Is that really the only mistake we made that we are too harsh on ourselves?
Maybe sometimes we really have to stay in the same place and miss a move. Maybe that's what we need, right now and for our future success. Perhaps we need to understand that we are not ready and that we feel that, by letting others take control of our lives, we have lost ourselves.
Is it sometimes that the burden in us that arose with the advent of a new opportunity is not intended to warn us that we have departed from our true self, from the point of achievement and growth, in our efforts to achieve success?
And here's the key - in the effort. It is not always behind our excuses, sometimes, even in rare cases, they really have to make us rethink our actions.
Achieving our goals should not be unbearable and cause pain - physical and mental. Here is a very thin line between being difficult and heavy, and yet success requires dedication, discipline, perseverance, but not grief.
And that is why - when you go against what you were born for, everything you do is hitting a stone. To succeed, you have to learn not to give up, but in cases where you really do what you want! In the rest - it is just pointless.
When you dance your dance, you will feel your steps coming from within, smooth and beautiful, unique and so light, because it will be the nature of your heart, passion, vocation. Think about this dance, dwell to feel it. Do not rush to dance anybody else and accuse you of not being good enough!
Listen to your inner sensations, they are there to help you, not to harm you. Use them as your compass and you will easily read the direction because if you have devoted yourself to your essence, your soul will feel in place and will not roam in anxiety!
Much love - Krisii
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its hard sometimes , but you need to work and me more strong !
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This is a really good post. I totally relate. I have been my harshest critic. I have a lot of goals and I have always pushed really hard to reach them but have come down on myself heavily if I missed a step or didn't do what I thought I could or didn't do it in the time that I set for myself. I think for me, the constant since of urgency has a lot to do with me measuring time. Losing a bunch of loved ones in the past few years has really amped up my need to achieve more than it was before and I have found myself burnt out in the process. I realized that I can't beat time anyway. It is constantly moving. What I can do is slow down to savor the moments of now and achieve whatever as best I can and not sweat it if I don't. I have learned to really listen to my sixth sense and just roll with my plans and even if the plans don't work. I figure, that's just my journey. We often find our best results in situations we did not plan for.