Good evening everyone. Hope the Sunday was awesome. Over here, it was a Carol service and it was really great. It was another time for personal reflection.
It's true everyone tastes or specifications differ when it comes to the issue of relationships and marriages, but however, amidst the differences, there are still four basic features a lady should look out for before settling for any serious relationship or even marriage. With these features, a lady would be happy being with such a man. I am not saying that there wouldn't be challenges but definitely it would be easier overcoming them when these four features are present.
Before a woman was recommended for the first man, being Adam, he was;
Giving a job. He was entrusted with the job of looking over the garden of Eden from which he would also eat from and feed the woman . Which goes on to tell us that, a man that isn't willing to work is not worthy of having a woman.
Giving the responsibility of nurturing the plants in the garden. Meaning, the man should be able to nurture the woman. The man should be able to add value to the life of the woman. The woman should be better than the way she was when in the hands of the man.
Giving the responsibility of protecting the garden. Here, we see that the man should also be able to protect the woman.
Giving the word of God. It's also very important that the man is a child of God ie the man should have the fear of God in him. When the man has the fear of God in him, he would be able to treat the woman the way she deserves.
In summary, a woman should only settle for a man that;
Has a job or willing to work. With the job, he would be able to provide for himself and the woman.
Would be able to nurture her ie add more value to her life.
Can protect her and
Has the fear of God
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