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RE: Today, I am once again reminded that I should consciously enjoy the time that everything is perfect.

in #life8 years ago

Death is unavoidable, but often you know the rate of death of male population is increasing day by day. Why this is the greatest question. Maximum no of women become widow in their early age. Why? The longevity of male and female different why? I am also a widow, my husband had died when I was 36years old. I didn't expect it, but is it my fault or fate? There are lots of things if you want I Will share it. Any way thanks for sharing such a valuable message. Thanks for the valuable supports you had done for me, wish you good luck good health and happiness,friend.

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Oh. Fate is really very strange. I have a very miserable love story. From childhood, I dreamed to marry a white American husband. But at that time there's no internet, I am from poor Chinese countryside, how can I realize my crazy dream? I know people must feel very strange, why and how can a poor countryside Chinese girl dream to marry a white American?(The reason behind it is a secret.) How can she realize her crazy dream?

Who knows God really arranged for me to marry a white American later? I got to know my American husband online at first. Internet is a miracle. He told me that he just had a Chinese dream when he was a child of 10 years old.
I realized my crazy dream when I was 38 years, we married in China. Who knows my American husband passed away suddenly when I was 39 years in China?
It means that our marriage only last 1 years, he lived in China only for 15 months.
I still remember clearly that I told him I dreamt to go to US, I have waited for so many many years, I really couldn't wait to have a visit to US. He just replyed that he waited for the whole 40 years to realize his Chinese dream. I was speechless... (Before he died, he became sobre, he knew about the real Chinese society-common Chinese live a very poor life. All Americans know China is poor, only he didn't know.)
He just died in China lonely...His American family refused to come to China, dealing with his funeral. For them, China is so remote and strange. Like for common Chinese, US is too remote and strange.
Our life is like a dream!

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Thanks I will also do you the same.