The truth is that we must learn to let go, to understand that for every element of our life that we can control, there are thousands that we cannot. In awakening from this illusion that everything that happens is for us, because of us, for us, is quite liberating. Suddenly, we don't need to feel guilty about things we didn't really have anything to do with.
It is fantastic to learn the approach that we must have in our lives every day, to liberate, it is a way to heal guilt that is not really yours, it is a way to live more freely and to focus our energies better, attachment doubles the burden and makes it increasingly difficult to live a calm and harmonious life, the detail of many (and I include myself) is to learn to recognize the scope of our lives, the control is ours only for those things that depend on you, it is worthwhile to internalize this subject and take into account that while there is one you can control, another thousand slip out of your hands, the important thing is to believe in us as humans, that we can make mistakes and rise even stronger, thank you for sharing, happy day.
Forgive my mistakes in English, I use a translator