Reasons Why Avoiding Mistakes Is the "Biggest Mistake" In Your Life

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Do you Ever make a Mistake? A Mistakes caused the failure, and a failure would have a variety of risks such as money runs out, the reputation of being bad, got the contempt from the other people, and so many. Various of these risks makes us afraid to take other decisions. Finally, we will not grown up, for decades doing the same things, grow and aging without the insight and experience. 

What's wrong with mistakes? The Wise man say: "The greatest mistake you can make-in life is to be continually fearing you will make-one." - Elbert Hubbard 

This is the reason why a "mistakes" was needed in our lives 


1. A Mistakes is Needed for Finding Ourselves 

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Now. Please Try remember the mistakes you ever do. From there you slowly can see who you are, your passion, and your limit shortages as well as your strong. Remember, ourselves not always the same as what we think. 


2. From Mistakes You Got Life Lessons Which is Very Worth

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Have you ever heard the phrase "experience is the best teacher?" The most valuable experience comes from experience in failure. success precisely formed from a failure,. When it fails, only two options you can take, you just want to make that mistake as a failure that does not need to be raised, or as a lesson to become a better individual. If you want to be successful and happy, choose the second option,. Mistakes are a part of human life, so cherish.  


3. Mistakes teach you How to Forgive 

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This is not about to forgive others. The most difficult from a mistakes it is to forgive yourself. "Why would I do that?" Or "If I do not make decisions like this." Those were the words that often come out when we knew that we had made a mistake and that can not make us move on. Try it for yourself to forgive, do not need to regret for too long. Take a lesson from it to improve the next decision and move on. However, life must go on, right?

"In fact, unless you can forgive yourself, forgive situation that already passed and lets happened, you're not going to be able to live your life in peace," said Steve Maraboli, one of the motivators in the US. 


4. Help You For Controlling Fear 

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Fear is natural and never eliminate it because with fear you could be more careful and cautious. You need to learn is how to manage fear. Do not let fear stop you to go forward. Life is not a matter of avoiding mistakes, it's how you learn from mistakes.

"There are people who really live for 70 years, but there are also people who just live life a year and repeat it for 70 years," wrote motivator Wayne Dyer  in one of his books. That is, the novelty and 'recklessness' that makes our lives more colorful, not merely carry out a routine that was-it wrote for many years for reasons already comfortable, or fear of failure.


5.  Teach For Life Happier 

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Finally, if we learn from any mistakes and improve themselves with it, our confidence grew, so also with our courage. New things that we thought was not going to be able to do, it turns out we can do. Big dreams who initially underestimated at others, it can be achieved. Colorful life that make us feel happier.

As phenomenal basketball player Michael Jordan said, "I am constantly got a failure, and that's the reason why I can be as successful today." 


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