Life supposed to be enjoyable, and the only way to do that is to make everything simple.
Laugh when you must, cry when you should, give when you have to, hold back when it is a must, build up, pull down, dare, risk, speak, have fun, dance, pray, help, sacrifice, give your all, do all it takes to keep living.
This are the things that makes life what it is. Therefore don't act as if you are the only one carrying other people's burden.