The psychology of marriage comes down to the question – how to behave with your partner? What to do in any other relationship? Dissolve in a partner, or save your "I"?
If you are in an emotionally connected relationship, as expressed by psychologists and family therapists, you risk to have your marriage at a standstill, bogged down in the quagmire of turmoil, discontent and a partner, put the welfare of the family under attack. I'm not talking about whether you will be happy and save if not love, then at least mutual respect and sympathy. I think that's unlikely.
What is emotionally connected relationship?
It's when your husband comes home from work with broken spirits, and you have it too deteriorates. When the wife is depressed, and the husband inadvertently "adjusted to it". She was crying – he was too sad. He failed in something, – she, too, falls into despair.
This is EMPATHY in a very real and devastating meaning when you experience the same negative feeling as your beloved (beloved). Even if personally you are all well.
Instead of together to stay afloat, you both drown. The paradox lies in the fact that this destructive reaction is welcome in society, praised and taken as a sample. Do not give in to this malicious hypnosis! Right psychology marriage and true COMPASSION is when you throw a drowning man a life preserver, but do not go down together holding hands.
Think again! Turn on your brains! Let the instinct to take care of you! Otherwise, your pair is waiting for the sad fate of many couples who brought their marriage to the breaking point, when there is a deep crisis and requires intervention of a specialist or a complete rethinking of the rules of the game. To get out of the quagmire is not so easy! Either common sense will prevail, or prevail destruction.
In any relationship, including family relations – the process of healthy differentiation of individuals is preferable to an impulsive "splice". Cultivate your self close with your partner and allow him to cultivate his own. The Union of two self-sufficient people much stronger than any kind of dependence on each other.
Don't believe "experts" who say that erotica and great sex will do your duet durable and invulnerable. This is an important, but not decisive component.
Now there are many trainings that promotes "10 steps to a happy marriage" or "10 secrets of passionate love". The question is, how much to take happiness in marriage and a passionate love for these promising recipes? I'm afraid not for long
To live side by side, day after day, year after year – a kind of clever psychology in relation to marriage, which is to learn. It is painstaking work that deserves to be posted. Remember: people love with body and soul. And the soul plays the FIRST violin in this Duo!
Source: http://meduniver.com/Medical/Psixology/kak_git_schastlivo_v_brake.html
That's true. Sex isn’t everything. The most important component is that your partner wouldn't irritate you with his/her actions and that your habits would be somewhat similar to “sleep with open window vs closed window.” Also, it’s important that you have the same attitude in money matters, helping people matters, and raising children matters.
You also have to have the same understanding of what closed and open relationship means. If you feel like dipping your beak once in a while, then you shouldn’t call your partner a whore is s/he does it as well.
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