Seriously we think of the same thing in different ways, I would feel discouraged if I were the one she didn't reply to my chat again till extend she forgot my birthday but as I read this now my orientation changed!
we should be a value adder, not should expect values from friends and doesn't matter even if they don't appreciate or just forget about you
Feeling like this shows that you are a human, we all desire some level of treatment we think we deserve, if they are not coming, their is no way we won't feel bad.
But acting like @olawalium does shows some level of wisdom. You can't keep yourself unhappy just because somebody fail to do what he or she supposed to do.
Stay awesome bro.
Knowing our roles in people's lives makes it easier for us sometimes. We shouldn't lord it over them if they forget. We should allow them make their decisions. Jesus even got 10% from the lepers He healed. Out of 10, only one came back. I should expect less than 10% hahaha.
Thanks, really appreciate.
Hahahah, funny you, ehn.
The door is always open for both entry and exit, everyone has the liberty of choosing weather to stay or to go.
Absolutely. We should know our roles in people's lives and not try to feel bad when they act different. We should know that once they heal, they might leave and when they leave, it shows we have done a good job in getting them to a place where they might not need us again. Some stay, some leave. We should not confuse our purpose because of those who stayed or left.
Glad this helped. Thanks a lot brother.