Dear steemians friends ...
May we always be in the mercy of a perfect God ...
Weekends are identical with an invitation to attend an ceremonial event. This is common in Indonedia because the week's day is a free day for office workers, so they have a bigger chance of fulfilling the invitation. The most commonly accepted invitation is a wedding party, but there are also small parties like the engagement day, and children birthday celebration or usually called Aqiqah.
Akhir pekan identik dengan undangan untuk menghadiri sebuah acara. Hal ini lazim terjadi di Indonedia karena hari penghujung dalam sepekan ini merupakan hari bebas kerja bagi para pekerja kantoran, sehingga mereka punya peluang lebih besar untuk memenuhi undangan tersebut. Undangan yang paling sering diterima yaitu pesta perkawinan, namun ada juga pesta kecil-kecilan seperti hari pertunangan, dan syukuran kelahiran bayi atau biasa disebut Aqiqah.
There are some opinion of people about attending an invitation. Is it true that the invitation is not necessarily attended, is it right? The answer is yes if at that time we are unable to attend. It may be that we have other prominence that should be prioritized, such as accompanying parents who are sick at home, doing mutual cooperation in the village environment, or the distance is too far, making it difficult for some people who have problems with transportation.
Ada berbagai macam pandangan orang tentang menghadiri sebuah undangan. Benarkah jika undangan ini sebenarnya tidak mesti dihadiri, benarkah demikian? Jawabannya iya jika pada saat itu kita memang berhalangan untuk hadir. Bisa jadi kita punya kepentingan lain yang harus lebih diutamakan, seperti menemani orang tua yang sedang sakit di rumah, melakukan kegiatan gotong royong di lingkungan desa, ataupun jarak tempuh yang terlalu jauh sehingga menyulitkan sebagian orang yang punya masalah dengan transportasi.
However, How about if we have the opportunity to attend but do not want to care about other people's events? In this case the person like that is an individual of less social value. In religion there are many opinions about the law of attend an invitation. Some say compulsory, some are classified as a Shari'a.
Namun, bagaimana jika kita punya kesempatan untuk hadir tapi malah acuh dan tidak mau peduli dengan acara orang lain? Orang yang seperti demikian adalah orang yang nilai sosialnya kurang. Dalam agama banyak pendapat tentang hukum menghadiri sebuah undangan. Ada yang mengatakan wajib, ada juga yang menggolongkannya sebagai sebuah syariat.
But at first glance we ponder, if we are lazy to go to somebody else, will others go to our place? I think the answer is absolutely not. So attending invitations from other people is very important, because that's the way to learn about social relations between fellow human beings, help and respect each other. If we are already understand it well, then our lives would be better.
Tapi sekilas kita renungkan, apabila kita malas untuk pergi ke tempat orang lain, maukah orang lain pergi ke tempat kita? Saya rasa jawabannya sudah pasti tidak. Maka menghadiri undangan dari orang lain sangatlah penting, karena dari situlah kita belajar untuk bersosial antar sesama manusia, saling membantu dan saling menghargai.Jika hal tersebut sudah kita pahami dengan baik, maka kehidupan kita pasti akan menjadi lebih baik.
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