I agree that first you must be in a position to help before you can actually help. ✅ I differ when it comes to taking payments or giving out a rate.
What I don't understand is why some people negotiate to the penny when helping out a poor person (like buying some fruits from a street-vendor) but have no problem giving out a $50 dollar tip to a rich restaurant owner (who doesn't really need the extra money) when dining at a fancy place. 😵