I have experienced such a shift in perspective. What I underestimated was the length of time that shift can take. It is only when you come out the other end and have made peace with the shift is it completed but then expect more changes. A poignant and heartfelt write.
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Agreed :-) It's certainly a duration to endure. Probably because we tend to fight it a little at first, but then as you say, when you let go of that it seems to suddenly make sense. Nothing stays static for very long it seems.
We are human and become not just emotionally attached to the one's we love but physically and energetically attached. The emotional attachment can stay really if we do not insist on the physical and cause us no pain. But the severed physical attachment, it causes real pain and period of healing is usually needed.