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RE: Why We Should Stop Getting Offended (featuring @logic as author)

in #life9 years ago

This is a very basic post of what reminds me of a very powerful book "The 4 Agreements"
One of the "4 Agreements" of this book is to not take things personally. When someone is having a bad day or upset it is snot really because of YOU, it is because THEY are having a tough time.
When we take things personally and get offended then not only do we waste energy but we also loose the opportunity to really share a different perspective with the other.
If we can keep calm and logical we can actually make a communication with someone who we are in disagreement with and promote a better relationship than a more damaged one!

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Well said. Logic prevails. No pun intended :-)

hahahahahahaha

P.T.S.D sometime's its a conditioned reflex triggered by audio.