@lifeisawesome, this is the way life goes. if you're caught doing something in a way that is outside the norm. If it's frowned upon by others, you're always relieved from that duty.
I have mastered limited responsibility, by playing an idiot. It's also a great way to get women to notice you. I have purposely said things or did things in a way to make people laugh, and women love a man with a sense of humor.
Where are all the intelligent women that want us for our brains and not our abs, huh? ;) (see what I did there? lol)