The way to know, that people are lying

in #life6 years ago

Hey friends, how are you guys and what's in the best of everything. If we pay attention to body language then one way to know the behavior of someone who is lying is actually very easy and not so complicated. And according to the science of psychology, when a human being is trying to conceal the actual reality, there will be a spontaneous reaction that is shown from the body. And this can not be hidden, and even by professional liars though. Then why can there be people who become victims of deceit / lie?

Perhaps because the level of knowledge of the victim is much lower than the culprit, and so easy to be deceived, say psychologists. Steemit friends all and these 5 signs and characteristics of a liar that can be used as a weapon to know whether your friend or boyfriend is lying.

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1. By doing the guessing way from his Face Mind
And how to know people are lying the first is to pay attention to the person's face. And if he seemed to throw / turn his face when spoken to. And that means something is being hidden by it. And then he prefers to avoid face to face, while talking. Though you just give a simple question and not being introgated himself.

2. Look at his eyes
And the real eye can also be an indication when someone is lying. And especially when invited to talk, intermittently his eyes will always look up or down. And if he looks up / down right it's a sign he has not prepared an alibi / essay to provide answers to the questions you ask.

3. Hyperbole and Provide Information that is not important

The hallmark of people whose hobbies lie is when they talk about their incredible life experience, and of course you yourself have never done it before. and for example about his rich father in the village, has a car and a very big house.

Or his ex once super pretty smooth but dead. and for him the more frills the story gets the better it sounds. And when we make ourselves sound very strange and unreasonable, but since we have never, mending we just listen. And usually when we invite debate or question the truth of the story. This liar will say and if you do not believe just ask me my friend or just ask my father's brother in the village, which we obviously never know him and also not important.

4. Body Language of Speech, Hand and Foot Movement
And speech may be lying but the spontaneity movement of the body will always tell the truth. Then we can see the body language of a liar starting from the lips. And when he was smiling when we discussed something. It was obvious that his smile was forced, not spontaneous as usual.

5. Easy emotions, and divert conversation and forgetfulness

When we ask a question to someone who is making up a bullshit story, then he seems to feel that he is being judged or discredited. And usually to weaken the other person, the liar will issue a rather harsh statement, and like an angry person. And more unique, sometimes he can turn back angry and accused us as a person who is suspicious of his own friends. And the second is usually the perpetrator tisani alias here and here, after declaring his argument will try as much as possible stir alias divert the topic of conversation.

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Well get here first and hopefully useful for all of us, and most importantly if you face this type of person let it and be a good listener. And wait until 1 week ahead, and re-invite about the discussion yesterday, we can be sure the lie forgot the plot of the story that he was reef.

Thank you

@sayed-mahzar