You certainly have my prayers as does your cousin. It is, as you mentioned, a difficult time for many during Memorial Day. This terrible affliction to that has visited your cousin... I do not have the words to comfort you.
I can just ask G-D to give you peace and comfort and that is what I shall do. I also send good thoughts to your cousin. To both of you, as us Vets say, welcome home.
I appreciate the prayers. They mean more than I think any of us realize. Welcome Home to you too Brother.